Separating or Divorcing? Why Mediation Could Be the Right Choice
The breakdown of a relationship is never easy. Together the emotional impact, there are usually practical decisions to make about children, finances and property. For many the priority is finding a way forward that avoids unnecessary conflict and allows important decisions to be made for the benefit of the family.
Family mediation can provide that opportunity.
What is Family Mediation?
Mediation is a voluntary and confidential process that helps separating couples reach agreement with the support of an impartial, professionally trained mediator. Rather than having decisions imposed by a court, mediation allows you and your former partner to explore solutions together and make informed decisions about the issues that matter most.
Mediation can assist with:
- Arrangements for children
- Financial settlements
- Property matters
- Communication and future co-parenting arrangements
The process is designed to encourage discussion, reduce conflict, and help families move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
The Benefits of Mediation
Many people choose mediation because it offers a more collaborative approach than court proceedings.
Some of the key advantages include:
Greater control – You remain in charge of the decisions affecting your family rather than leaving them to a Sheriff.
Child-focused solutions – Mediation can help parents focus on the needs and wellbeing of their children.
Cost-effective – Fees are usually shared between both parties, making mediation a more affordable option than lengthy court action.
Confidential and voluntary – Discussions take place in a private setting and participation remains voluntary throughout the process.
Why Work with Jenna Thomson as your mediator?
Based in Inverness, Jenna Thomson has more than 17 years of experience as a family law solicitor advising clients throughout the Highlands, Islands and Moray.
Jenna is an accredited family mediator and a member of CALM Scotland, the professional body for family mediation in Scotland. She is also an accredited Family Law Specialist, bringing extensive legal knowledge and practical experience to the mediation process.
Jenna believes mediation often leads to better long-term outcomes for families.
“In my experience, people who reach an agreement through mediation often leave the process feeling more satisfied and more in control than those who have a decision imposed upon them by a court.”
Professional Standards and Accreditation
Accredited family mediators in Scotland must complete a rigorous training and assessment process before becoming qualified.
As a member of CALM Scotland, Jenna is required to:
- Undertake ongoing professional training each year
- Maintain up-to-date knowledge of family law and mediation practice
- Follow a strict professional code of conduct
- Deliver services with sensitivity, impartiality and professionalism
Mediation and the Scottish Courts
The value of mediation is increasingly recognised within the Scottish legal system.
Since September 2023, the Scottish Sheriff Court Ordinary Cause Rules have allowed courts to pause proceedings and encourage parties to consider mediation where appropriate. This reflects a growing recognition that mediation can help families resolve disputes more constructively and with less conflict than traditional litigation.
Considering Mediation?
If you are facing separation or divorce and would like to explore whether mediation could help, Jenna Thomson would be happy to discuss the process with you.
Email: jenna.thomson@macandmac.co.uk
For further information about family mediation in Scotland, visit the CALM Scotland website here: https://calmscotland.co.uk/